About Me
- Kathy
- I am a divorced mother of 3 kids, here to share the ups and downs of life.Topics that will surely come up are love, life, sex, relationships, kids, divorce, internet safety, discrimination, men, family, injustice, peace, harmony, the world, racism, fun, friendships, movies, music, people, places, money and finance and not necessarily in that order :)
Tuesday, June 15, 2010
Monday, June 14, 2010
BBIIIIIIIGGGGG BBBUUTTTTT!!!!
I had almost forgotten to write down this story, my life is sometimes so busy, i totally neglect this blog.....
I went to the gas station to put some gas in my car, my kids were in the back seat as usual. It was a sunny afternoon as i pulled into the station and found a free pump. As i pulled in, another car pulled in along side me. I watched as this car with several teenage boys pulled up and one of them got out to pump the gas. I got out of my car and moved around to the other side to start the pump. At that very moment, I hear a loud , very loud and annoying yell. At first i couldnt make out where it was coming from or what the noise was. As i start the pump, i am facing the car with the teenagers and realize the noise is coming from the back seat of their car. I still cant make out what the kid is screaming, but the other friends , the one pumping the gas and the other in the car, are yelling for him to shut up............to no avail. i then realize as the message is played to me over and over more slowly, that he is shouting BIG BUTT!. I quickly scan the gas station and realize, i am the only one there with a big butt lol. I realize he is shouting at me....It continues BBIIGGGGGGGGGGGGG BBBBUUTTTTTTTTT . BIG BIG BIG BIGGGGGGG BUUUUUTTTTTT!
I try to ignore him as his friends are clearly embarassed cause i am making direct eye contact with them. He on the other hand pulls out his cell phone and points it at me, I start to wonder if i will be the latest YOUTUBE sensation, ggggrrrrrrrrr. As my pump comes to a stop, the shouting continues and i slam the pump back in its place. I make my way around to the driver's side but decide to confront the chicken shit teen who is now hiding in the back seat but still yelling. I look at his friends and tell them their friend in the back seat is an idiot, then i say to the dumby in the back seat, "It's big hey?, u like my butt hey? u love it , u love it!!!!! "while smacking myself on the butt then making the coocoo sign in his direction.
when i get into my car, my kids realize that something is happening, they just dont know what it is. Perfect time for a lesson in behaviour. i explain to my kids what happened and then proceeded to explain how rude, and stupid and disrespectful that teen was and i would expect none of my kids to behave in such a manner.
Luckily these things dont bother me, i know my butt is big ,lol, i can see that for my self, no pointing out required lol.
I went to the gas station to put some gas in my car, my kids were in the back seat as usual. It was a sunny afternoon as i pulled into the station and found a free pump. As i pulled in, another car pulled in along side me. I watched as this car with several teenage boys pulled up and one of them got out to pump the gas. I got out of my car and moved around to the other side to start the pump. At that very moment, I hear a loud , very loud and annoying yell. At first i couldnt make out where it was coming from or what the noise was. As i start the pump, i am facing the car with the teenagers and realize the noise is coming from the back seat of their car. I still cant make out what the kid is screaming, but the other friends , the one pumping the gas and the other in the car, are yelling for him to shut up............to no avail. i then realize as the message is played to me over and over more slowly, that he is shouting BIG BUTT!. I quickly scan the gas station and realize, i am the only one there with a big butt lol. I realize he is shouting at me....It continues BBIIGGGGGGGGGGGGG BBBBUUTTTTTTTTT . BIG BIG BIG BIGGGGGGG BUUUUUTTTTTT!
I try to ignore him as his friends are clearly embarassed cause i am making direct eye contact with them. He on the other hand pulls out his cell phone and points it at me, I start to wonder if i will be the latest YOUTUBE sensation, ggggrrrrrrrrr. As my pump comes to a stop, the shouting continues and i slam the pump back in its place. I make my way around to the driver's side but decide to confront the chicken shit teen who is now hiding in the back seat but still yelling. I look at his friends and tell them their friend in the back seat is an idiot, then i say to the dumby in the back seat, "It's big hey?, u like my butt hey? u love it , u love it!!!!! "while smacking myself on the butt then making the coocoo sign in his direction.
when i get into my car, my kids realize that something is happening, they just dont know what it is. Perfect time for a lesson in behaviour. i explain to my kids what happened and then proceeded to explain how rude, and stupid and disrespectful that teen was and i would expect none of my kids to behave in such a manner.
Luckily these things dont bother me, i know my butt is big ,lol, i can see that for my self, no pointing out required lol.
Monday, March 22, 2010
Catching a cold
Woke up on sunday morning with a sore throat, stuffed nose, a heavy head.......Im never sick, so i was hoping it would pass quickly. I felt better throughout the day. But still today , i woke up feeling crappy, stuffed up and with a frog in my throat. Really just felt like staying in bed all day, sleeping and watching tv. I havent done that in sooooo long. Unfortunately I have to work, and had to get up for my kids anyway, so for me, life goes on, sick or not. Im still feeling stuffed up and achy, but not tired at all, so here i am writing this instead of getting in bed, lol. Ok , enough said, Goodnite all....Sleep tight, dont let the bed bugs bite.
Friday, March 19, 2010
LOVE
After many many conversations on this topic. Today i heard something different. Most people would say , yes they believe in love, but that its a complicated and most sought after part of the human experience. Today someone told me they dont believe in love , as in couple love. The love of a mother or that for a child is there but love for a significant other, wife, husband, girlfriend, boyfriend, partner, spouse, doesnt exist. This baffles me, how can one spend their entire life without the love of someone close. Is the love a parent gives their child enough to sustain them their whole life? The love of a good friend? I struggle with this. it also makes me sad :(. I mean have we become so robotic in our society that we cant or wont allow the love of a partner, to share ourselves, our hearts, our life with????
In a society that right now, cannot hold a marriage together, maybe this is our reality. Is this the reason why we cheat? Are we capable of unconditional , long term, compassionate love for a life partner? From the eyes of a divorced woman, i still believe in love. I do believe we r capable of loving someone, sharing ourselves. But where to find someone that shares the same feeling on this topic as u do?
In this generation of internet and high speed dating and sexing, I guess its easy to get a quick fix or dose of "love" and this way , we dont have to interact with each other on a deeper level:(. So having sex with people we dont love or really know on some deep level is the new trend of today.
I understand the need for physical interaction, but why do we demand so little of someone that is in essence touching us so intimately?
As an adult, a single adult, I can make that decision for myself, but as a parent, i worry about the repercusions of our behaviour in the long run. How can we function without love? how will they learn about love, commitment, compassion and empathy? we have the power to change. can we live in a loveless world?
In a society that right now, cannot hold a marriage together, maybe this is our reality. Is this the reason why we cheat? Are we capable of unconditional , long term, compassionate love for a life partner? From the eyes of a divorced woman, i still believe in love. I do believe we r capable of loving someone, sharing ourselves. But where to find someone that shares the same feeling on this topic as u do?
In this generation of internet and high speed dating and sexing, I guess its easy to get a quick fix or dose of "love" and this way , we dont have to interact with each other on a deeper level:(. So having sex with people we dont love or really know on some deep level is the new trend of today.
I understand the need for physical interaction, but why do we demand so little of someone that is in essence touching us so intimately?
As an adult, a single adult, I can make that decision for myself, but as a parent, i worry about the repercusions of our behaviour in the long run. How can we function without love? how will they learn about love, commitment, compassion and empathy? we have the power to change. can we live in a loveless world?
Thursday, March 11, 2010
Movie Night!
Last night I was totally wired. Not sure why but I was. I decided to watch The Hurt Locker since I hadnt even heard of it before it got all those oscar nominations.........It was good, not really my type of movie but still very good. After that I was still wide awake, decided to watch Dear John. Ok, I didnt realize how good looking that guy was, the lead actor, lol, dont even know his name.....but he was yummy;). The movie was long but good, but then again Im such a sucker for a love story.Those feelings of budding love, butterflies, excitement , longing........aahhh thats a great feeling.. too bad it doesnt last forever and eventually the one u were going gaga for is now pissing u off, lol. Why doesnt it last? Why do we forget how it feels when that person angers us? Why is it so hard to get it back? Imagine, meeting someone, spending 2 weeks together and then losing that person for a year. In that year to continue ur love for one another thru letters. This kind of thing doesnt happen anymore. These days we r so hung up on the sex part of a relationship rather than getting to know someone personally thru conversation. Makes u rethink ur individual relationships past and present and how much do u know about ur current partner. ok, i have issues on this topic, lol, but dont have the energy to deal with it now. off to bed i go!nite all :)
Sunday, March 7, 2010
Weekends
My weekend is coming to an end, slowly but surely, just wanted to make a point in mentioning that i got the dent out of my car ...............woohoo!
now i will work on the scratches another day. its oscar time tonight, i will be watching , keeping my fingers crossed for sandra bullock. I love her:)
now i will work on the scratches another day. its oscar time tonight, i will be watching , keeping my fingers crossed for sandra bullock. I love her:)
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