This is a blog about my life, the joys of raising my 3 kids by myself and all the wonderful and unexpected things that happen in my life.
About Me
- Kathy
- I am a divorced mother of 3 kids, here to share the ups and downs of life.Topics that will surely come up are love, life, sex, relationships, kids, divorce, internet safety, discrimination, men, family, injustice, peace, harmony, the world, racism, fun, friendships, movies, music, people, places, money and finance and not necessarily in that order :)
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Friday, September 16, 2011
Adele - Someone Like You Lyrics On Screen
I can listen to this song non-stop over and over and over.....
Monday, August 8, 2011
Letting go
This song says it all sooooo well
Letting go by Straight Lines
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3j9SDP1jFUk
They say that if you love somebody
you gotta set them free,
and if you really love somebody
you gotta let them be.
well i dont wanna tie you down
we both need room to grow,
but its so easy havin you around
and the hardest part of love,
is letting go.
its easy to depend on someone
to be part of your life,
and all the time you spend with someone
could make you hold too tight,
well i dont wanna tie you down
we both need room to grow,
but its so easy havin you around,
and the hardest part of love is letting go
the hardest part of love is
letting go
the hardest part of love is
letting go
they say that if you hold on to it
its gonna slip away,
but if the feeling's really true
then you know its gonna stay
well i dont wanan tie you down
we both need room to grow,
but its so easy havin you around
and the hardest part of love is,
letting go
letting go,
letting go,
the hardest part of love is
letting go
Letting go by Straight Lines
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3j9SDP1jFUk
They say that if you love somebody
you gotta set them free,
and if you really love somebody
you gotta let them be.
well i dont wanna tie you down
we both need room to grow,
but its so easy havin you around
and the hardest part of love,
is letting go.
its easy to depend on someone
to be part of your life,
and all the time you spend with someone
could make you hold too tight,
well i dont wanna tie you down
we both need room to grow,
but its so easy havin you around,
and the hardest part of love is letting go
the hardest part of love is
letting go
the hardest part of love is
letting go
they say that if you hold on to it
its gonna slip away,
but if the feeling's really true
then you know its gonna stay
well i dont wanan tie you down
we both need room to grow,
but its so easy havin you around
and the hardest part of love is,
letting go
letting go,
letting go,
the hardest part of love is
letting go
Monday, July 25, 2011
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
Raspberry sugar-cookie hearts - Chatelaine Recipes
Raspberry sugar-cookie hearts - Chatelaine Recipes
I made these for my kids for valentines day............very easy and very yummy!
I made these for my kids for valentines day............very easy and very yummy!
Monday, February 14, 2011
VALENTINE'S DAY???
February 14...... the day we celebrate love and affection. The day where flower sales and chocolate sales are at their highest point. Restaurants too, make a lot of money on and around this day. But really.............why? Are we that shallow, that we need a day marked on the calender for this reason?
For me, loving someone, should be a celebration every single day of ur life together, not just on valentine's day. Sure its great to receive flowers, a card, a gift , a night out, etc. but why cant these things be shared on every other day? If your married or in a couple, its expected that in some way or another u will celebrate ur love on this day.The social pressure is high, its the big question.............So what did he get u for valentine's day? or what did u guys plan for valentine's day?
When i was married, this day eventually became a big issue. Its all good, when things r great in your relationship and each of u agree on the importance of this day or lack of it. But when u and ur mate do not agree, things can get ugly. I remember arguing about not wanting money spent on flowers on valentine's day. But feel free to purchase flowers for me on any other day, just because you want to, and not because of the social pressures to do so.
The day the delivery man came into the place i was working, everyone was soooo excited, waiting to see who they r for, saying oh i think they r for uuuuuu, pointing at me. I on the other hand am literally praying my husband did not just spend $100 (of money that we do not have) on flowers. Well sure enough the flowers were for me, beautiful as they were, it was unnecessary and in considerate, considering we had a discussion about it and i was clear, that i didn't want our money spent on flowers. Come to think of it, another year , it was a foot massager, another yr a full body massager, lol.The foot massager i returned the next day, and the full body massager i used 3 times, lol. Now for any man reading this, here's a thought, save ur money and get down and massage her feet, or better yet, massage all of her :).I think i speak for women around the world, that would make a better valentines day present.
So there's the social pressures for married people and couples and the social pressures for single people. It seems no one wants to be alone on valentine's day. Honestly its one freaking day, big woop! So everyone rushes to find a date to spend the day with. Like does that even qualify lol?
I say screw society and do what u want. Celebrate or not, alone or not, just do what u want and enjoy but keep in mind, love is to be celebrated each and every day and not just on February 14. Write your partner a note in the morning and put in his pants pocket once a week. Make her favorite meal often, kiss and touch each other daily, do things that will make him/her happy, give each other a bubble bath, keep it fun, and stay connected on valentines day and the other 364 days in the year!
That's my 2 cents :)
For me, loving someone, should be a celebration every single day of ur life together, not just on valentine's day. Sure its great to receive flowers, a card, a gift , a night out, etc. but why cant these things be shared on every other day? If your married or in a couple, its expected that in some way or another u will celebrate ur love on this day.The social pressure is high, its the big question.............So what did he get u for valentine's day? or what did u guys plan for valentine's day?
When i was married, this day eventually became a big issue. Its all good, when things r great in your relationship and each of u agree on the importance of this day or lack of it. But when u and ur mate do not agree, things can get ugly. I remember arguing about not wanting money spent on flowers on valentine's day. But feel free to purchase flowers for me on any other day, just because you want to, and not because of the social pressures to do so.
The day the delivery man came into the place i was working, everyone was soooo excited, waiting to see who they r for, saying oh i think they r for uuuuuu, pointing at me. I on the other hand am literally praying my husband did not just spend $100 (of money that we do not have) on flowers. Well sure enough the flowers were for me, beautiful as they were, it was unnecessary and in considerate, considering we had a discussion about it and i was clear, that i didn't want our money spent on flowers. Come to think of it, another year , it was a foot massager, another yr a full body massager, lol.The foot massager i returned the next day, and the full body massager i used 3 times, lol. Now for any man reading this, here's a thought, save ur money and get down and massage her feet, or better yet, massage all of her :).I think i speak for women around the world, that would make a better valentines day present.
So there's the social pressures for married people and couples and the social pressures for single people. It seems no one wants to be alone on valentine's day. Honestly its one freaking day, big woop! So everyone rushes to find a date to spend the day with. Like does that even qualify lol?
I say screw society and do what u want. Celebrate or not, alone or not, just do what u want and enjoy but keep in mind, love is to be celebrated each and every day and not just on February 14. Write your partner a note in the morning and put in his pants pocket once a week. Make her favorite meal often, kiss and touch each other daily, do things that will make him/her happy, give each other a bubble bath, keep it fun, and stay connected on valentines day and the other 364 days in the year!
That's my 2 cents :)
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
SISTERS
During the hospital stay, the only way i could concentrate solely on getting better was because of my sisters. My biological sister Debbie, is my life saver. I can count on her no matter what. She took over my business for 2 weeks while i was, first, in the hospital and second, home trying to recover. I don't think she realizes how valuable she is, or how much i appreciate all her help. Truly the bestest sister!! I love her :). She also came to see me every day while i was in the hospital, along with my brother, who usually is not the type to show outward affection for anyone, me included, but i think he was really scared for me . Now my other sister is my long time friend Chantal who i love like a sister, and who i can count on to help in every way. She took care of my kids as if they were her own and made sure i was OK and didn't need or want anything.Also a daily visiter and a worry wart :). I love her as well, more than she knows, I'm sure...........Actually she is sort of like a second mom to my kids, they love her and her family. OK enough of the corny stuff, lol. I just wanted to say that good friends r so important and really i am blessed with amazing friends, friends i can call at a drop of a hat with a problem and they will help me with a solution. It does make life a little easier knowing that when ur in trouble , u have people u can count on.:) ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥ I love you guys ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
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